What I learned from (the first) 6 months in an RV

  We have hit the six-month mark of living in our RV trailer while my husband builds our little retirement house 3,000 miles from our last house.  Another 6 months or more to go.  The first four months we were privileged to park our trailer in our daughter’s yard.  She spoiled us by sharing one…

Asking for It

If you want  it, ask for it.  With respect and directness.  Depending on your personality, you may, like me, fall into the trap of needing something, but not asking.   I’m not honest about my need because I’m unwilling to risk confrontation.  I’m a coward.  However, stuffing desires can lead to inner resentment and bitterness.  Other…

Ugly Angels

  Another episode in our home construction saga. The west wall of our house was ready to be stood up, but two men just couldn’t do it.  The framing and the sheeting on a 22-foot wall add up to one heavy lift.  How about using the little excavator to pull it up?  Get the machine…

Last Lap

  Almost August.  One last lap of Summer.  How are you doing?  You wanted to do something important this Summer.  Have you made progress?  You still have a chance to make it happen! Remember June and the ideas you had for what your summer could be?  Have you brought some of those ideas to fruition? …

Grit or Grace?

I don’t care for ladders.  This may have something to do with my discomfort with heights.  (Heights is any time my feet are more than  three feet from the ground.)  Some of you are snickering at the ridiculousness of my fear, but some of you are nodding with empathy.  So in the case of fears,…

Dead End or Bridge?

We make choices all day long; some seemingly small choices.  What to eat, what to wear, how we answer an annoying person, whether to tell a white lie, whether to work diligently or slack just a little, whether to take the time to check on a family member.   These may not be momentous decisions…